The Road Home

The Road Home

Some roads stay with us long after we have traveled them. They may be country roads lined with fence posts, gravel driveways leading to a childhood home, mountain trails that carried us into quiet places, or familiar streets we could still walk in our memory. This week, write about a road, driveway, street, trail, or journey that reminds you of home. Where did it lead? Who traveled it with you? What feelings come back when you remember it?

Please share your stories and link them here.

The Road Home

Here is a blog post I wrote years ago about the road home. It is one of those pieces that still tugs at my heart, because home is more than a place. It is the people, the memories, the roads we traveled, and the stories we carry with us.

I would love for you to share links to your own stories here, too, so I can share them with my readers. Family memories make the very best stories, and sometimes, one person’s memory helps another person find their way back home.

Beulah Update: Praying for Our Mountain Home

My heart is still with Beulah today.

The Aspen Acres Fire has continued to grow through the Wet Mountains and down to the valleys and open prairies, burning more than 86,000 acres across Pueblo, Custer, Huerfano, and Fremont counties. Officials report the fire is still at zero containment, and evacuation orders remain in place for many communities, including Beulah, Rye, San Isabel Colorado City, Wetmore, and surrounding areas. Thousands of people have been displaced, and more than 180 structures have been lost.

It is hard to find the right words for a place that has always felt like peace. Beulah is not just a dot on a map. It is a sweet mountain town filled with kind people, quiet roads, wildlife, trees, memories, and that feeling you get when your soul can finally breathe. For many of us, Beulah is our happy place. Today, that makes this loss feel deeply personal.

Fire crews continue to work in difficult conditions. Over 600 firefighters are now assigned to the fire, and crews have been building containment lines, protecting homes, and using water drops from Pueblo Reservoir to slow the flames. Weather remains a concern, with dry conditions, possible thunderstorms, and wind gusts that could cause more fire growth.

On this Fourth of July, as so many people would normally be celebrating, I hope we remember the families who are waiting for news, the evacuees who are far from home, the firefighters standing between flames and neighborhoods, and the animals and wildlife caught in the middle of it all.

Please continue to pray for Beulah, Rye, San Isabel, Colorado City, Wetmore, Bishop’s Castle and every surrounding community touched by this fire. Pray for the people who have lost homes, land, memories, and a sense of safety. Pray for the firefighters, deputies, emergency workers, pilots, volunteers, and everyone working long hours to help.

May the winds calm.
May the smoke lift.
May the rain come gently.
May every person and animal find shelter.
May those who have lost so much feel surrounded by love.
And may our beautiful Beulah rise again, held by the strength of the mountains and the hearts of the people who love her.

Colorado strong ❤️

Note: This photo was shared in a post by Robert Bradford, whose home was spared in the Aspen Acres Fire here in Colorado. The picture itself was taken at his neighbor’s property, where a dry tree stump topped with a carved wooden eagle somehow survived the flames. Sadly, his neighbor’s home was lost in the fire.

To me, this image speaks boldly. It is both heartbreaking and powerful, a symbol of loss, survival, and hope rising from the ashes. I wanted to share it because it tells such a bittersweet story.

Photo credit: Robert Bradford.

Monetary Donations: Can be sent to the United Way Southern Colorado.

Born on the Fourth of July

The end of June 1961 came without so much as one labor pain, and the expectant mother sighed, anxious to meet the stubborn child who refused to make her entrance.

In a small Seattle apartment, my mother sat at a kitchen table. The due date had come and gone. Glancing out the open window, she felt the morning breeze graze her face; it carried the damp, earthy scent of the Pacific Northwest, part rain, part salty sea breeze, and part conifers. Resting her hands on her growing belly, she listened as her mother and her husband carried on a lively conversation about the upcoming birth.

“The baby’s comfortable,” my father teased, glancing at the calendar on the wall. “Maybe the little one is waiting for July 8th. A good day to be born.”

My father was not shy about staking his claim; he decided the baby should be born on his birthday as if I were a pre-ordered gift he had personally ordered and was simply waiting to unwrap.

My grandma, on the other hand, was not to be outdone and decided her birthday would be the perfect day for her grandchild to make an entrance. Sitting next to my mother, she smiled, lifted an eyebrow, and declared, “Oh no. If that baby is born in July, it should be born on July 10th. Everybody knows that’s the best birthday in the family.”

And without warning, my arrival became a family feud in the making as my grandmother and my dad turned it into a lighthearted debate.

My Momma shook her head as her mother and husband laughed and continued their playful banter.

My poor mother, hot, tired, long overdue, and carrying the human prize in this birthday tug of war, pushed herself up from the kitchen table. The exhausted mother-to-be simply told the pair, “If you two are going to argue about it, I will just have my baby on the Fourth of July.” Her delivery was firm and matter-of-fact.

They laughed.

But four days later, that is exactly what she did. Her prediction would become a family legend, repeated for years as the family sat around kitchen tables. But at that moment, it was the exasperated promise of a woman who was tired of being pregnant.

On a busy afternoon, I was born on July 4, 1961, at Fort Lewis’s Madigan General Hospital, bustling with holiday babies. More than twenty babies were born that day, my mother said, as if even the maternity ward had surrendered to the patriotic spirit of the date.

“Must have been a cold October or the men were heading downrange,” one nurse muttered with a knowing smile. 

Honestly, the nurse was probably not wrong.

Outside the post would have been alive with Independence Day celebrations. Flags would have lifted in the breeze. Firecrackers would have snapped in the distance, and a marching band may have been warming up for a parade. Inside the hospital, the mood would have been quieter, with mothers cradling their babies as they celebrated the arrival of their precious cargo.

Inside the maternity ward, the army hospital still ran with military precision: polished floors, the smell of antiseptic, nurses moving briskly through the halls, and starched sheets tucked with perfectly squared corners.

My mother liked to tell the tale with a combination of pride and wonderment.

“You cost $7.50,” she liked to say.

As a child, I was offended and thought it was outrageous. “That’s all I was worth?”

She would laugh and correct me. “That was for my meals. I had to pay for my food.”

I guess I came cheap,  but lunch was extra.

Afterward came the detail that fascinated me most. “Every morning,” she lowered her voice as if she were whispering something scandalous, “I had to make my own bed.”

“In the hospital?” I asked.

“In the hospital,” she stated. “Army corners and all,” she said. “And then the women had to stand next to their beds as the head nurse came through to see if it passed inspection.”

That was one detail that remained with me as vividly as if I had witnessed it myself.  My mother, exhausted and sore after delivering her first child, was pulling stiff white sheets across a hospital bed and tucking each corner with care. The Army life did not loosen its grip for labor pains or newborn cries. Even motherhood in that world came with precise rules. Discipline lived alongside tenderness; duty held at the bedside.

I was an Army brat from the beginning, and my father’s service affected the family as a whole. I was born into that rhythm. Born on Independence Day, surrounded by uniforms and regulation corners.

At family gatherings, Dad would chuckle and say, “Well, she almost had the good sense to be born on her dad’s birthday.”

And Grandma would counter, “Or her grandmothers.”

And my Momma would simply say, “She chose her own day.”

And maybe I did claim my own day; I kept them waiting, ignored the family vote, except my mama’s, of course, and showed up when I was good and ready.

Outside, fireworks split the darkened sky with flashes of gold and red, their brilliance blooming and fading against the darkness. And somewhere between the sizzle of sparklers in little hands, I realized the Fourth of July suited this independent and stubborn gal, and I’ve been doing things on my own ever since that day.

Teddy Roosevelt and Summer Break

Cameron and The Kissing Bandit

One summer, I was on my way to visit my family after my daughter invited me to come up for a visit in her little mountain town. It was about a four-hour-long drive, and my dogs loved road trips as much as I loved visiting my grandkids.

My Muttley Crew settled into my Chevy HHR like seasoned travelers, tiny bodies tucked into their favorite spots, noses pointed towards the windows. It was fun to watch the pair take in the views as the scenery slowly changed from dry open plains to rolling hills to beautiful mountain vistas that made you forget how long you had been sitting in the car.

By the time we reached Fairplay, I wanted nothing more than to stretch my legs and then grab some lunch. After walking around the little town a bit, we stopped at a local cafe.  Since Max and Mitzi were small enough, I stuffed them into a tiny carrier that looked like a purse, stood in line, and ordered a chicken sandwich and an iced tea.

Now, Mitzi loved riding quietly in the purse. She was perfectly content to sit there like a tiny queen, waiting for her lunch to be served. Max, on the other hand, never quite got used to the cramped quarters. In his mind, he should be on his leash, out in the world, greeting people, sniffing old wooden floors, and inspecting every corner of the tiny restaurant. 

As his patience grew thin, my unhappy dachshund began to squirm and whine, grumbling about his latest predicament, and betraying my covert operation. Customers turned to look, and the staff smiled. Before long, everyone wanted a peek at whatever was making noise inside my purse.

When I unzipped a small opening, two little faces peeked out of the purse. The cafe filled with laughter, and from that moment on, I received the gold standard of service. 

Once I settled on the outside patio, where dogs were welcome, the staff brought my lunch, a bowl of water, and even some turkey for my babies. The little town was busy that day, and people kept stopping by to pet my mini dachshunds. And of course, my puppies soaked up every bit of the attention and paid for it with wagging tails and endless kisses.

After lunch, we headed back to the car. I was more than ready to get up the mountain and see my family. Max and Mitzi could feel the excitement too, and they quickly settled and watched from their favorite perches.

We steadily climbed Hoosier Pass, where the pines grew thicker, the air turned crisp, and the mountains opened wide to a staggering view. My breath caught. Peaks rose in the distance, the valley stretched below, and the Blue River flashed in the sunlight.

From there, the road wound down the mountain towards the town of Breckinridge, then on through Frisco and Silverthorne. The towns were busy, the traffic was slow, and I was impatient to be on my way. The pups, however, watched and whined at every passing car, every stroller, every cyclist, and every tourist as if they were personally responsible for greeting the entire state of Colorado.

After leaving Silverthorne behind, the radio faded in and out, and I shoved an Eagles CD into the player and let music fill the car. The landscape changed again, growing drier and more open. Even though I was only about 40 miles away, that last stretch always felt like the longest.  Maybe it was because I missed the pines, or maybe it was because I could hardly wait to hold my grandbabies.

By the time I rolled into town, Max and Mitzi were wide awake and bouncing with excitement. As soon as I turned off the main street and onto the back roads, they began whining and barking as they always did when they knew we were close.

I pulled into the driveway, and before I could even gather my bags, the grandkids came running out, happy to see me, and even happier to welcome my dogs. There was just something special about arriving at a house full of family where the doors open before you even knock, and the people you love rush out to greet you.

Before long, the bags were inside, the dogs had made their joyful rounds, and the first rush of greetings had settled into the comfortable noise of family as everyone talked at once. I sank down on the couch, happy to finally be there. Mitzi, never one to shy away from attention, hopped up beside me and made herself at home.

Cameron sat beside me, eager to hold my little dog. Mitzi was ecstatic, wiggling, bouncing, and giving kisses as fast as she could. Cameron laughed so hard and turned his face away. But Mitziei was determined. Every time he moved, she followed, her tiny tail wagging as she tried to sneak in just one more kiss.

As Cameron continued to laugh, Mitzi’s tongue darted into his mouth. Everyone in the room froze as they witnessed Cameron’s surprise. But in no time, he started laughing, and without missing a beat, my grandson delivered the perfect one-liner, “ Great, my first French kiss was with Honey’s dog, Mitzi!”

The room exploded in laughter. My daughter, Leslie, shivered in disgust at the thought. And Mitzi, oblivious to what just took place, continued to wiggle and bounce from grandchild to grandchild, hoping to sneak in just one more kiss.

On that day, Cameron may not have appreciated Mitzi’s overly affectionate greeting, but his quick response made the day unforgettable, a moment that would be retold at family gatherings for years to come. Sweet little Mitzi always loved the grandkids, but on that particular day, she apparently decided Cameron needed the deluxe dachshund welcome package, no warning, no manners, and way too much love!

Prayers Through the Smoke

The Aspen Acres Fire continues to be a serious and dangerous situation, with zero containment and the fire now having grown to more than 66,000 acres. Fueled by strong winds, the fire has shown unpredictable behavior, making firefighting efforts even more challenging.

An Alaskan Complex Incident Management Team has graciously arrived to help supervise and manage the wildfire, and firefighters from Alaska have now taken over command efforts. In addition, the National Guard is expected to arrive today to assist as the response continues to grow.

Smoke still fills the air, and visibility remains poor on highways, creating hazardous travel conditions in some areas. Officials have also issued new mandatory evacuations as the fire continues to threaten additional towns and homes.

Estimates for structure loss vary, but reports suggest that between 160 and 200 structures may have been lost. The devastation is heartbreaking for families and communities already facing so much uncertainty.

Residents are being advised to stay indoors because of the heavy smoke and poor air quality. Please continue to pray for the safety of evacuees, firefighters, emergency personnel, and everyone affected by this devastating fire.

Praying for those who have lost homes, barns, memories, and pieces of their lives, we ask for comfort. Every loss represents a family, a story, and a place someone loved.

Praying the winds calm, the smoke lifts, and firefighters be protected. Praying the evacuees find shelter, kindness, and hope. And may every community touched by this fire feel surrounded by prayer, love, and support.

Colorado strong ❤️

A Prayer for Colorado

Colorado is hurting today. Across our beautiful state, wildfires have burned nearly 127,000 acres, leaving smoke in the air, fear in many hearts, and entire communities waiting for word about homes, land, animals, and loved ones. The Aspen Acres Fire has become the largest active fire in the state, burning over 50,000 acres with no containment reported, and mandatory evacuations remain in place for Beulah, Rye, San Isabel, Wetmore, and parts of Colorado City. At least 180 structures have been lost, and officials expect that number may rise as crews are able to safely assess the damage.

My heart is especially with the small mountain communities that have been forced to leave behind the places they love. Beulah, Rye, Wetmore, Colorado City, San Isabel, and the surrounding areas are more than names on a map. They are homes, memories, family places, quiet roads, mountain views, pastures, wildlife, and neighbors who look out for one another.

Today, I am praying for every person who has been evacuated, every family waiting for answers, and every heart grieving what has already been lost. I am praying for the safety of livestock, pets, and wildlife trying to escape the flames. I am praying for strength, protection, and rest for the firefighters, first responders, law enforcement officers, emergency workers, volunteers, and neighbors who are giving everything they have to help.

Lord, please wrap Colorado in Your protection. Bring calmer winds, cooler air, and gentle rain where it is needed most. Give courage to those who are afraid, comfort to those who have lost homes, and hope to those who do not yet know what tomorrow will bring. Watch over our mountain towns, our firefighters, our animals, our families, and all who call this beautiful state home.

Colorado is strong, but today Colorado needs our prayers, our compassion, and our help. Please keep these communities close in your heart.

Colorado strong ❤️