Living separate lives…
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The Garden
It had to be here. Somewhere. It had been years since she visited. Decades. But she knew this place; it was etched in her memory and in her heart. Take the first county road after passing the Victorian cottage with the bay window and the rocking chair. Her heart beat faster as she passed the little yellow house and smiled when she noticed an orange tabby curled on the rocker’s cushion. She was close now.
Her rickety blue Ford pickup turned right onto the county road. Soft clouds rolled in, and the skies darkened. She knew a summer rain would break at any moment, so she hurried up the old logging road. As the high desert plains shifted into forest, she smiled at the sight of the aspen grove to her right. She remembered that a side road would be nearby, one that ambled toward the old log cabin, inhabited by a family over a hundred years ago.
She remembered the day she and her love had explored it, surprised by the remnants left behind. Old canning jars, a wooden kitchen table in the single room with a loft above the living space. Dusty red gingham curtains hung over a window near the water pump. An old wood cookstove sat by one wall, and the coal bin still had splintered kindling, as if waiting for its occupants to return and start the evening meal. Postcards decorated one side of the wall. One, in particular, had caught her eye—a little red fox looking up at blooming wildflowers, its eyes closed in a smile.
By one window sat a sewing rocker with a small table beside it. A bowl held tiny, round wooden buttons, each one carefully carved by hand. She patted her pocket and felt the small clasp she had taken with her—the only memento of that day, so long ago.
Once she spotted the side road, she turned and traveled a short distance until the old cabin appeared in sight. She slowed, her breath catching. The years had not been kind to the cabin. It looked as sad as she felt. She pulled off the road, turning off the truck’s ignition.
“Wish you were here,” she whispered, closing her eyes. She could still see his smile from that day when he took her hand as they walked to the cabin. She remembered showing him the postcard of the fox. He had smiled, too.
“I’ll plant you a flower garden one day, in the country. That way, we can have foxes visit our yard,” he had promised.
She brushed away her tears, wishing for the time of her first love.
“If only,” she whispered softly.
Inside the cabin, her heart sank. It had been ransacked. The old cookstove was gone, along with all its furnishings. She searched for the fox postcard but found only a torn corner clinging to the wall. She ran her fingers over the frayed edge, still able to envision the picture. A bittersweet smile tugged at her lips.
She wanted to visit the creek, to see if their tree was still there—the one where they had carved their initials inside a heart. She turned to leave, but something caught her eye. A dusty piece of paper had slipped under an old crate. Turning it over, her breath caught in her throat. It was the fox postcard.
She smiled through her tears, brushing the dust off with her jeans. This time, she would rescue this treasure. She rushed to her truck, tucking it safely away, then hurried toward the creek. She needed to find their tree.
The aspens stretched out before her in every direction. It would be like finding a needle in a haystack. But she didn’t mind. The thought of seeing their tree, of finding something that tied her to him again, made her heart swell. After walking for some time, she realized she had gone too far. The skies reminded her that an afternoon rain could begin at any moment. Reluctantly, she turned back.
Though she hadn’t found the tree, she felt a sense of peace. She had found the old cabin, the postcard, and had revisited memories of a love long past. As she walked along the creek, she noticed wildflowers growing just off the path. Unable to resist, she ventured closer.
Columbine, lilies, and lupine blanketed the ground beneath the quaking aspens. She wished Jay were with her to see the vibrant garden spread out before her. She turned in a slow circle, taking in the colors, the beauty.
And then, she saw it. A darkened heart carved into the bark of one of the trees—her initials, and his.
Stunned, she sank to the ground among the flowers. His voice echoed in her mind, “I’ll plant you a garden…”
She started to cry, and the heavens wept with her, as the summer rains began to fall.
2025 February Flash Fiction Challenge: Day 1
Write a piece of flash fiction each day of February with the February Flash Fiction Challenge, led by Managing Editor Moriah Richard. Each day, receive a prompt, example story, and write your own. Today’s prompt is to write about a garden.

The Homecoming
Driving along the country road, my anticipation grew. Soon, I would arrive at my mountain retreat – my sanctuary in the heart of the valley. Over the years, I spent countless days here, each visit offering a respite from the demands of daily life. In the past, my family and I would take weekend trips, hiking in the nearby mountain park or leisurely exploring the town and surrounding countryside. From my first visit, I recall the magic I felt as we turned onto Pine Drive, where towering trees created a natural tunnel, sunlight filtering through their branches in shimmering rays. The homes—old and new—peeked through the pines, and I often wondered about the lives of the settlers who had once built homesteads in this valley.
In recent years, I’ve made a point to return whenever I can steal a moment from the bustle of life. Long weekends spent here bring a deep sense of rest and rejuvenation. Despite the many beautiful spots in Colorado, it’s this quiet place that calls me back. It offers solitude and peace that I can’t find anywhere else.
Lost in these thoughts, the road suddenly dipped, and my heart lifted at the familiar sight ahead. The two-lane highway split before me: to the left, it wound upward into a forest of pines, eventually climbing into the rugged Wet Mountains; to the right, the road veered into a lush valley dotted with farmhouses and barns. We took the path on the right, and for a fleeting moment, I felt a pang of longing to follow the familiar road that led to a cabin I had once visited often—until it was sold. I had spent many peaceful days there, immersed in the stillness of the mountains, enjoying the wildlife and the antics of my Muttley Crew—Max and Mitzi. It had been the perfect escape from the frenetic pace of my everyday life.
But today, the sight of the old farmhouse with its vivid red door drew me in. Nestled in the foothills, snow still blanketed the dormant alfalfa fields, and the weathered barns stood like quiet sentinels, storing the land’s offerings. In the distance, snow-covered peaks loomed, their soft blues and creamy whites blending into the cloudy sky. For a moment, time seemed to freeze as I gazed at the farmlands below, feeling as though I had stepped into an old postcard.
As I pulled into the gravel driveway, I spotted a lone buck standing still, his antlers silhouetted against the pale sky. I quickly snapped a photo of the regal creature, who seemed unfazed by my presence. But the moment passed as soon as I released Max and Mitzi from the car. The mini dachshunds bolted into the yard, barking loudly as they chased the deer, who bounded away at the sound of their shrill voices. I called the scoundrels back, apologizing to the startled buck.
Taking a deep breath, I inhaled the familiar scent of Ponderosa Pines, their rich pine and vanilla fragrance filling the air. I walked over to one of the trees, placing my hand on its rough bark, and closed my eyes, savoring the moment. It was a scent I’d come to associate with peace and solitude, with memories of quiet days spent here in this special place.
As I surveyed the house and surrounding fields, my gaze lingered on the faded green outhouse beside the barn. I couldn’t help but chuckle at the thought that this 150-year-old home had been updated with a modern bathroom. I imagined what life must have been like on the farm a century ago. Though I grew up in the city, my mother often shared stories of her childhood on a ranch. From her tales, I knew it had been hard work, but I also knew that she cherished those days spent with her family.
It was funny how distant my city life now felt. The asphalt streets and concrete sidewalks had been replaced by dirt roads and open prairies. The hum of city traffic had been replaced by the raucous calls of quail, signaling to their young. And the acrid stench of car exhaust and burning oil had given way to the sweet, earthy scent of sagebrush and hummingbird mint. I had always known I was a country girl at heart.
Quickly, I unloaded the car, stowing the groceries inside and setting aside the rest of my things to unpack later. For now, all I wanted was to sit on the front porch and enjoy the sunset. As the pups explored the yard, I settled into the bench on the porch, pulling my gloves from my hoodie pocket to ward off the winter chill. The crisp air swirled around me, but the gloves warmed my hands as I gazed out over the valley.
The quiet was only broken by the occasional car winding down the road, and each time, the driver would wave. It warmed my heart that small towns still held on to such customs, offering a moment of connection even to strangers. As I relaxed on the bench, the distant sound of church bells rang through the valley, their chimes a reminder of the season. Breathing in the fresh, cold air, I smiled to myself. I had returned to the mountains, to the perfect place to spend my winter holiday.
Unexpected Teaching Journey: From College Grad to Women’s Prison Instructor
Never in a million years, as a grandmother, did I ever believe I would begin my teaching career in a women’s prison. It was not my first choice, but fresh out of college and separated from my spouse, my limited options and looming debt reminded me that I could not be picky. While I enjoyed living in a rural community, teaching opportunities did not come along often. And my old truck was on its last legs. Whenever I traveled outside the county, we rumbled along on a wing and a prayer. So, after subbing for three months, I jumped at the chance to work evenings at the women’s prison.
Before I could begin teaching, I had to spend time at the training academy. Days were spent in class, listening to lectures on law. Others were spent in the old dormitories of the former boy’s school, searching for contraband. When the day came to begin self-defense classes, I was more than a little nervous. The instructors paired the class with people of the same height, and my partner was a young kid half my age. I told him, “Be gentle with me; I’m a grandma.”
Nodding his head, he sweetly smiled and said, “Yes, ma’am,” before we began sparring.
Listening to our instructor, we threw punches and kicks until I just wanted to find a secluded corner somewhere to hide and rest before I collapsed from exhaustion. Although I lifted weights and worked out, this granny was no match for the young man.
To add to the commotion, the instructor began barking orders like a crazed drill sergeant. He marched right up to me and screamed in my face, “Hit him harder!”
Flabbergasted by his order and demeanor, I stepped back and replied, “I don’t want to hurt him.”
He loudly laughed, and the room grew quiet. Everyone stopped to watch the trainer as he criticized and mocked. In true military fashion, he began to berate his student, me. He cooed in a sickly, sweet little voice, “Oh, is that what you’re going to tell your little inmates? Huh? I don’t want to hurt you?”
Everyone laughed, and I fumed. I pushed all doubt from my mind, ready to prove my mettle. I ignored the aches and pains; at that moment, I was determined to show Ole Sarge that I was more than capable of defending myself.
The young man and I began exchanging jabs again as everyone watched. The trainer continued to shout instructions to block, jab, and kick. Although I did my best, Ole Sarge didn’t think I was up to par. With more conviction, he again started screaming in my face, “Hit him harder.”
At that moment, all I wanted to do was punch the instructor. He was relentless. I was tired and hot and sweaty, but he continued to scream at me. In frustration, I finally gave all I had and punched the kid square in the face.
To my absolute horror, he went down and didn’t move. And he did not respond to any commands. In shock, I realized I had knocked him out! Frozen, I stood motionless as people rushed to the young man’s side. Although he was not out for long, time had slowed to a crawl, and my heartbeat quickened, and I began to tremble when he finally responded, “I can’t see.”
At that moment, I wanted to disappear as all eyes turned to look at me. Tears welled. What had I done?
Within seconds that seemed like an eternity, his sight returned, and the angry young man jumped to his feet. He glared at me, and through clenched teeth, he growled, “A grandma, my ass!”
Relief washed over me. The young officer stormed off, refusing to work with me. The “drill sergeant” mumbled, “I should take a break.”
Before Ole Sarge could change his mind, I rushed from the auditorium, found a dark corner, and slumped to the floor. While I listened to echoes of grunts and Ole Sarge barking orders, I tried to relax as I again questioned my sanity. At least this round was over, and soon it would be forgotten, or so I thought until I showed up for my first day of teaching.
Walking along a path to the school building, a smiling officer approached. “Are you the new teacher?”
“I am,” I replied, returning his smile.
“Glad to have ya here, teach, or should I say Bruiser?”
He laughed as I groaned.
A group of inmates overheard our conversation, and one of the ladies asked, “Why do you call her Bruiser?”
Laughing, he told the woman, “You don’t want to mess with her. She knocked out a kid half her age…”
I sighed. Well, if nothing else, my teaching career was clearly not going to be dull. I had walked into the women’s prison as an uncertain, newly minted teacher, hoping simply to survive the job. Instead, I had earned a nickname, a reputation, and an unforgettable introduction to a world I never imagined entering. As I unlocked my classroom door that first day, I realized this unexpected journey might just shape me as much as I hoped to shape my students.
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denim Coat
Well, the oldest thing I will be wearing today is a denim coat that I have owned since the 80s! I love this jacket. It is long and drapes to almost my knees. It has beautiful jeweled tone trim, and after 40+ years, it still looks amazing! Today is Mother’s Day, and I am having brunch with my daughter and her mom-in-law. Since the weather is chilly, I will be wearing my jacket once again.
Listen
My Girls
- Jan
- Cat
- Barb
- Merry
Today’s Goals
“Today’s goals: Coffee and kindness. Maybe two coffees, and then kindness.”
– Nanea Hoffman
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Evening Solitude
As a teen, I enjoyed secluded evenings in my bedroom when I could escape daily activities and noisy little brothers and find quiet moments to reflect and create. On those nights, I shied away from the opulent crystal chandelier hanging in the middle of my room and opted for the small lamp on my nightstand, a gift from my mother, enjoying its warmth and soft glow. I wrote poetry and music or shared secrets with my journal in the stillness. I enjoyed sitting on the floor near the large bay window. I pulled a soft comforter from the daybed along one wall and grabbed a pillow from my bed. As I settled into the corner of my room, I listened to the evening sounds of the island; as it settled into quietness, it comforted me. The Pacific thoroughfare, one street behind my own, slowed to a restful hum and often soothed, reminding me of a hushed lullaby. From a distance, the Mormon castle from the Oakland Hills softly lit the darkened skies, another nightly comfort as I rested my hands on the window sill and peered into the night. And on more than one occasion, gentle salty breezes stroked my hair until I fell asleep wrapped in my favorite throw.
Calibas. Oakland Mormon Temple. 28 Nov. 2007. 4770 Lincoln Ave, Oakland, CA 94602.
Relaxing
- Play with my pups
- Sit outside and listen to an audiobook
- Water Aerobics
- Chair Yogs
- Walk the Dogs
- Hot shower
- Massage chair (work) lunch time!
- I am actually thinking about purchasing one. It really helps with my back pain.









