Tag: Faith

Some lives touch yours so tenderly and without fanfare that you only recognize their power years later.

There is no trumpet sound, no grand announcement, no single dramatic moment that marks their arrival as an important event. They simply begin by showing up, week after week, year after year, with such steadiness, kindness, and grace that one day you look back and realize they helped shape the landscape of your life. That was how it was with Jan and Keith Lacy.

I was nine years old when I first met them in Alameda, California, in the early 1970s. They were our youth ministers then, young and full of faith, but what I remember most is not simply what they taught. It was who they were. Even as a child, I could sense the difference between people who talked about love and people who lived it. Jan and Keith lived it.

I can still picture those early years: church services, Keith singing hymns, church basements, youth gatherings, dinners, Christmas caroling, the way they moved among us, always loving, always present. They carried themselves with a warmth that invited trust. Their faith was not stiff or showy; it was sincere as it revealed itself in love and patience in the way they showed up for others and in the way they loved. They loved through kindness, provided sincerity in their attention, and provided comfort whenever they were near. As a child, I felt loved, safe, and valued. They touched my heart in so many ways. Their presence was a shelter and a comfort. They treated me as if I belonged, and I felt like I was part of their family.

So many meaningful acts of love and kindness accumulated into faithful ones; they prayed for family and me. They listened. They encouraged. Their love endured and remained for a lifetime. Even when life changed, and miles stretched between us, even after they moved to Colorado, they remained a constant source of support and encouragement.

That kind of love and stability is a rare and loving gift.

So much of life changes. People move away. Seasons shift. Churches change. Families go through trials. Children grow up. But some relationships do not disappear with distance. Instead, they deepen into something quieter and stronger, something less dependent on proximity and more rooted in love. That is what Jan and Keith became for me, a steady presence, even from afar.

Because of them, I became a better person. They helped strengthen my faith by living lives that showed me truth, hope, and a trust in Him. They simply lived a life and practiced what they believed.

During difficult times, it comforted me to know I had someone praying for me, people who believed in me, people who held me in their hearts even when they were not physically near. There is a peaceful understanding and contentment in knowing that you are loved simply for who you are. And because of them, I never feel alone, ever.

In this life, I have found the most powerful influences are the gentle ones. The people who do not try to control your story but help you steady it as you live it. The people whose goodness leaves an imprint on the soul. The people who model compassion so naturally that it changes the way you move through the world yourself.

Jan and Keith are those kinds of people.

Their impact and encouragement did not end with childhood. Their example still speaks to me; their love still matters. Their presence, encompassing decades, has remained a constant, steady blessing in my life.

When I think of them, I understand the gift of being encouraged. I wonder about God’s mystery of places and people and paths crossed at the right moments. And I am grateful for the love they shared with me over a lifetime.

Some people pass through our lives. And some, by the grace of God, become living proof of how He holds us steady through the love of others.