The Toothbrush

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My mama, Dotty Allen, her horse, Midge and her furry friend.

Sitting on the porch of their small cabin, my grandparents, my aunt and my mama enjoyed a pleasant evening on their Colorado ranch. As the family visited together, the family dogs tried to join in on the family fun. Since the pets had horrible breath, my grandfather, Tom Allen chased the dogs off the porch and would not allow them to sit any where near the family. Continue reading “The Toothbrush”

Missing David

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Our Boy Scout, David Reeder, 1974

Tonight I am writing with a heavy heart, my sweet younger brother, Dave, left this world for the next. Today, as my family grieves together, all I could imagine was his reunion with our mama! I told family members, wish I could be a mouse in the corner to witness that precious reunion. Continue reading “Missing David”

Yellow Crocus

One of all time favorite past times has always been to read a good book.  Unfortunately, over the last several years, I have fallen away from this favorite routine.  Yesterday, I decided to remedy that cold and hard fact and settled in for a long afternoon of good old fashioned reading.  But, my long afternoon turned into a three in the morning ordeal; I just couldn’t put this book down! Continue reading “Yellow Crocus”

Paper Dolls

IMG_20170614_0087Recently, my favorite aunt, who lives in California, sent a box of treasures. She and her husband plan on moving, so they started the task of sorting their belongings. Since I began working on the family tree and preserving our family stories. Aunt Jan sent me a huge box of pictures and papers that belonged to my grandmother. This box contained a wonderful collection of trinkets that I will treasure, including some items that once belonged to my mother, her infamous paper dolls. Continue reading “Paper Dolls”

No Place Like Home

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One ancestor that had a homestead was my grandmother, Elva Bryant. For years after her mother died, my grandmother lived with family and friends and never really had a home of her own. When she finally had her land and her cabin, I often wondered how she felt when she stepped through the door of her new home and knew it was really her very own place. Continue reading “No Place Like Home”

The Elf on the Shelf

With her inquisitive stare, bright eyes, and tiny pouty smile, the little elf dressed in red has always been one of my favorite family heirlooms. She sits quietly on a small shelf each Christmas season, her felt outfit a little faded now, her painted cheeks softened by time and she now is missing one tiny eyebrow. To anyone else, she might look like an old doll. But to me, she holds a story.

This little elf once belonged to my mother.

Mama received her one Christmas when she was just five years old. She often told me that story, her voice warm with memory as if she could still see the moment as clearly as if it had happened yesterday.

Christmas in Mama’s childhood home was simple, but to her it was magical.

Each December, the family would bundle up in coats and scarves and head out together to find the perfect Christmas tree. They didn’t buy one from a lot; instead, they searched until they found just the right one to bring home. Once inside, the tree was proudly placed in the living room, where the family decorated it with the ornaments she had carefully saved from year to year.

Mama remembered the smell of fresh pine filling the house and the warmth of a coal stove that chased off any winter chill.

But Christmas of 1939 came during the hard years of the Great Depression.

Money was scarce, and every dollar mattered. My grandfather worked long hours on the ranch, often leaving before the sun rose and returning after it set. My grandmother cleaned houses for neighbors and families in town to earn a little extra money.

Even with all their hard work, there wasn’t much left over.

Still, Grandma was determined that Christmas would feel special for her children, my mother and my aunt.

Each year, they received one “big” gift and a stocking filled with small surprises: an orange tucked in the toe, a few pieces of hard candy, maybe a ribbon or hair bow. Those small treasures felt just as exciting as any expensive present.

That year, Grandma found a secondhand doll.

It wasn’t new, and it certainly wasn’t fancy. The little elf wore a red felt outfit and a pointed hat. Her face had been carefully embroidered with bright eyes and a mischievous smile.

To Mama, she was perfect.

She loved that little elf with the fierce devotion only a child can give a beloved toy. The doll became part of her Christmas memories, brought out each December and placed somewhere special where she could watch over the holiday celebrations.

Years later, when I was a child, Mama would carefully unwrap that same doll from a box of ornaments. She handled it gently, the way people do when they are holding a memory.

“This was my Christmas doll,” she would say, smiling softly.

Then she would place the little elf somewhere in the room where she could be seen.

I didn’t fully understand it then, but Mama wasn’t just setting out a decoration. She was honoring a piece of her childhood, a reminder of a time when life was hard, but love made everything feel abundant.

Now that the little elf lives in my home.

Now she rests on her own little shelf, keeping watch as the seasons come and go. She remains there all year long, a gentle reminder of the love, sacrifice, and simple joys that shaped our family’s Christmases.

Her red outfit is a little worn now, and the years have softened the brightness of her face.

But to me, she still carries the same magic.

She reminds me that Christmas was never measured by the size of a gift.

It was measured by the love that made even the smallest gift feel like magic.

The Road to Freedom ~ Abolitionists: Levi and Catharine Coffin

Throughout their lives, Levi and Catharine Coffin helped thousands of slaves find their way to freedom. This Quaker couple opened their homes and their hearts while defying government mandates and relying on the truths of a heavenly Father to guide them while helping those in need. Continue reading “The Road to Freedom ~ Abolitionists: Levi and Catharine Coffin”

A Country Western Singer, Mama, and Morning Sickness

“Please excuse Ann for being late this morning. She has morning sickness.”

I turned back toward the house, but my mom was already standing in the doorway, arms crossed, grinning like a woman who had just played her final card. She waved sweetly and called out, “Guess you’ll be on time tomorrow, huh?”

And I was. Mama always knew exactly how to end the nonsense

Turns out nothing cures bad hair habits faster than the threat of a fictional pregnancy documented in your mother’s handwriting.