Dear Annie

Daily writing prompt
What advice would you give to your teenage self?

Dear Annie,

Go to college as soon as possible; don’t wait! It will open doors and provide exciting opportunities. You will not regret going as soon as possible.

Save for a rainy day. Take a percentage of your paycheck, stash it away, and forget about it. One day, you will thank me.

Spend extra time with those you hold close to your heart. The time spent with them is precious. When they share family stories, ask questions, write them down, or better yet record them. Let them know just how special they are to you, and how much you love them. Trust me on this one.

Stay true to yourself, but be more adventurous. And don’t be so hard on yourself! You are one of a kind and a pretty awesome young lady with a huge heart. You can’t please everyone, so don’t even try!

Your life will not always be an easy one, but it will be a good one.

Laugh often! Don’t forget your veggies, and avoid men with blue eyes, blonde hair, and sweet lies. Seriously!

More than anything, enjoy your time. It flies by all too quickly. And never forget, you got this kid; I have faith in you!

Mitzi Moo

Daily writing prompt
Share one of the best gifts you’ve ever received.

One of the best gifts I ever received was my pup, Mitzi. My dear friend, Cathy let me pick out my special girl from a litter of pups; she was one of four. I wanted two, so Mitzi would not be alone, but at that time all the pups were spoken for. At the last minute, one pup, my Max, became available. The man who wanted him could not take him at the last minute, and I am so thankful. My little Muttley Crew has changed my life, and I adore this pair.

Pork Roast and Sauerkraut

Daily writing prompt
What’s your favorite thing to cook?

Ingredients:

Pork Roast

Sauerkraut

Potatoes

1 tablespoon of minced garlic

salt and pepper

Place a pork roast in a crock pot and cook overnight. In the morning, drain the grease. Add one or two large jars of sauerkraut and add the liquid. Add 6-8 chopped potatoes. Cook on low for eight hours.

This has always been one of my daughter’s favorite meals. The leftovers can be frozen.

Photo by Rohit Tandon on Unsplash

Bloganuary writing prompt
Write about a few of your favorite family traditions.

When I was a child, I enjoyed our holiday traditions. My sweet mother, Dotty Allen, made sure our childhood days were the best that they could be. Each holiday we spent together held so much magic and warmth and I have missed those days.

For every holiday and a few special Sunday mornings, Mom would make us those Pillsbury Orange Rolls to go along with our breakfast. We thought they were heavenly! As a child, my bedroom was right off the kitchen, and I loved to wake up to the sounds of mom singing in the kitchen while preparing breakfast. 

The day before Easter, we would dye eggs, a family tradition my brothers and I looked forward to each year. Mom would buy the Paas Easter Egg Dye kits, grab coffee mugs from the cabinet, and make the colorful concoctions. I loved how the dye stained the inside of the cups, and I was always a little sad when the colors finally faded. 

In the evenings after the boys went to bed, Mom and I would hide eggs in the house or in the backyard. On Easter morning, it was fun to watch my little brothers find the colored eggs. We even filled plastic eggs with jelly beans or chocolates and hid those little gems too.

Mom always made a special dinner for Easter too. She always made a ham with all the fixings. I loved it when my grandparents could visit too. Now, one year, I will never forget was when my Grandpa came into our kitchen laughing with my Grandma. When we heard their laughter, my brothers and I ran to greet them. On that rare occasion, they were affectionate with one another. It was the first and last time, I ever witnessed them kissing. Grandpa leaned down and sweetly kissed my Grandma. Then he stood up, wrapped an arm around my Grandma, and asked, “Isn’t she a sweet Honey Bunny?”

I have always cherished those special moments with my family. 

Photo by Євгенія Височина on Unsplash

Dream Jobs

Bloganuary writing prompt
What’s your dream job?

During my senior year of high school, I had to take a career aptitude test. It offered a series of questions to help me discover careers that meshed with my personality, strengths, and personal interests. Usually, most students had two or three top career choices, but not me. I had five. My friends laughed at my varying suggestions for my future career, and even my school counselor chuckled at my results, for they were all over the place.

My top five career suggestions included:

  1. Teaching
  2.  Forestry
  3.  Administration Assistant (back then, it was called secretarial)
  4.  Photography
  5.  Writing

And the funny thing is that I have worked/dabbled at all five recommendations. At thirty-three, I decided to go to school to get my teaching degree. Over thirty years later, I have my BA in English and my masters in cultural and linguistic diversity. And I have been teaching for over twenty-five years.

When I first moved to Colorado, I worked a temporary job in a hardware store and later found another temporary job as a switchboard operator for private companies. Still, my first real job in Colorado was when I began working for the Bureau of Land Management (BLM). I loved working outdoors. My crew cut trees, built fences and rafting sites, and planted trees. We looked for wildlife and cleaned recreational areas. And when the administration got behind on their work, they pulled me in to work as a secretary.

For a time, I dabbled in photography. I took black-and-white photography classes and learned how to develop my own work. I took photos for friends, senior pictures, and nature shots when I had the chance. One year, a photo took first place for a nature shot for BLM. But I drew the line at wedding pics. After four weddings, I discovered that the sweetest women become scary mothers of the bride, and the blushing bride often turns into a bridezilla. Nowadays, my old Canon Rebel and my Sony Digital collect dust. I really need to pull out the Sony and start shooting again. I have only taken pictures on my iPhone in the year and a half since I finally started using my this device. Hmm, I see new adventures on the horizon.

In college, I started writing for the school magazine and paper. I won writing contests, published poetry, and received a writing scholarship. In my senior year of college, I was asked to attend a poetry seminar to share my work. I was one of seven invited, and I was the only one in the room who did not have a master’s degree or was not currently working towards their master’s. During that time, a professor asked me to participate in a symposium because of an essay I had written about women and children after divorce. It was published, and I am proud to admit that I was included with Ivy League professors, not too shabby for a late bloomer who always worried if her writing would ever be “good enough.”

Now, I have a blog that all began with family stories and genealogy. Over the years, my blog has grown as I have included short stories, poetry, flash fiction, and even writing challenges. And just today, I was shocked to discover that my subscribers have grown. I now have over 1,000 subscribers. Never in my wildest dreams would I have believed that my family blog would grow like this. Funny how life has twists and turns and offers blessings and joy at every stage of our lives. And I must admit that I am forever amazed at the promise, “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart. (Psalm 37:4).”

So I wonder; what is in store for my future adventures? For this Grammie, it’s incredible to realize that new journeys await just around the bend.

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Homelessness

Bloganuary writing prompt
If you could un-invent something, what would it be?

In a perfect world, children would have a warm bed, a hot meal, and clean clothes. They wouldn’t sleep in the cramped quarters of the family car….huddling together to chase away the bitter chill….a cold so deep it clings to your skin and your very spirit. In a perfect world, a child would not live in a parked car in front of their middle school building…

Globetrotting Grammies

Daily writing prompt
Come up with a crazy business idea.

Jetsetting grammie-style would be my idea of a a crazy business plan. Hear me out. I would travel the world, visit ancient wonders, and view the Renaissance masterpieces of Leonardo da Vinci, Sandro Botticelli, Albrecht Dürer, and Raphael. During these travels, I would lounge on the soft sands of the Mediterranean and walk along the cobbled streets of Circus Lane. I would finally visit the Louvre, the Eiffel Tower, and the Notre Dame Cathedral. 

Okay, you get the idea. And how would I pay for it all? Well, that’s the glorious part of my crazy business plan. I wouldn’t have to shell out a single dime. Hotels and restaurants would be calling me and sending me invitations to stay at their luxurious accommodations and dine at their extravagant eateries just so they would be mentioned in my world-famous travel blog. 

Sigh. Well, one can dream.