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Almost Forgotten: The Marriageable Girls
Often, life in France offered little hope for women. Arranged marriages prevailed, and most women did not have a say in the matter of matrimony, for parental consent was required for women under the age of twenty-five. For poor families that could not offer a dowry, marriage opportunities for the women were bleak.
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All for the King
This great grandmother, Marie Jeanne Toussaint, blazed a new trail in the New World, and her name survived throughout the generations as one of the founding mothers of North America.
The last known member of her family line, this King’s Daughter, came to New France alone. Her origins, her parents, and even her exact age vanished from history. Still, this great grandmother, Marie Jeanne Toussaint, blazed a new trail in the New World, and her name survived throughout the generations as one of the founding mothers of North America.
While little information on this 9th great grandmother existed, her impact on North America could not be forgotten. My grandmother, along with around 800 “sisters,” traveled to the French colonies to help balance gender inequality. To enhance the population in New France, King Louis XIV sent the King’s Daughters, the Filles du Roi, to the wilderness frontier between 1663 and 1773.
Once they arrived, most married the French immigrants and helped settle the king’s lands. The king also gave the women a dowry and a trousseau to help them establish their homes. Once they landed, they were provided with housing until they married. During their stay at their temporary quarters, the nuns taught them the necessary skills required to face the challenges of this strange new world. Most were not prepared or suited for the demanding lifestyle that awaited them. Yet, they stayed, and boldly met the challenges set before them.
Many of the women married within a few months after a suitable marriage was arranged. Fulfilling the king’s hopes, a decade later, the French colonies doubled in size. These women helped populate North America, for their descendants spread across this continent, and currently, most French Canadians have descended from at least one of the King’s Daughters.
Historically, these voyages often took as long as two to three months, and the young women faced hardships while traveling across the Atlantic Ocean. Some perished on their journey, and others suffered from malnutrition and disease. Although some records were lost, Jeanne arrived in Quebec in 1670, and historians believed she was about eighteen years old. That year eighty-seven women immigrated to the continent.
Unlike many of her contemporaries, Jeanne did not marry right away. Instead, she contracted for one year of service with a native of Quebec, Madeleine de Chavigny, at Cap-de-la-Madeleine.
Jeanne’s future husband, Noel Carpentier, arrived in 1665 and worked as a servant for a time. On 22 Jun 1669, Noel accepted about 35 acres of land from Nicholas Crevier dit Belleviue, and a few years later, he decided to settle down and start a family.
About 1672, Noel Carpentier and Jeanne Toussaint married in Cap-de-la-Madeleine. While her paper trail grew cold, Jeanne helped her family thrive in the new land. While living in this town, the couple had two children, Marie Madeleine (1673), and Marie Jeanne (25 Nov 1676). Around 1678, the family moved to Quebec. Their son, Etienne was born in 1678.
Sometime after the birth of their son, the family moved again to Champlain. The family settled in this town and remained in this settlement. The couple had seven more children, Medard (2 Aug 1681), Marie Marguerite (4 Mar 1684), Marie Antoinette (11 Jan 1686), Marie Therese (3 Jul 1689), Marie Celeste Anne (18 Jun 1691), Jacques (14 Apr 1694), and Noel (5 Nov 1703).
According to the 1681 Census, the family was listed twice, in Cap-de-la-Madeleine and Champlain. Most genealogists and historians believed the couple owned land in both places. The information stated the couple held nine head of cattle and about 30 acres of land.
Tragedy did strike the family, for the census did not list Jacques, and many believed he died as a child. Years later, on the 5 Nov 1703, Noel and Jeanne lost their oldest daughter, Marie Madeleine, in Champlain.
Five years later, on 11 Dec 1708, Jeanne’s last will and testament were notarized by Normandin. Five days later, she died, and on the 17 Dec 1708, she was buried in Champlain. She was about fifty-two years old.
Noel lived until he was eighty-five years old. He died 26 Jan 1728, and he was buried next to Jeanne. Four of their children settled at Ile-Dupas; two children moved to Becancour, one daughter, Marie Jeanne, became a nun at Notre Dame in Montreal. She took the name Sister Sainte-Genevieve. The rest of their children stayed in their original parish.
Life as a King’s Daughter required strength and courage to survive the rugged wilderness of the French Colonies. These women not only coped with frontier life but also raised children amidst all their duties. They conquered their surroundings and left a legacy for their children and grandchildren. What a revelation and an honor to know that the women in my family were resilient, valiant, and capable, even when faced with enormous obstacles and reservations.
Painting by The Arrival of the French Girls at Quebec, 1667. Watercolour by Charles William Jefferys.
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Antoine Marie Leduc and Jeanne Faucheaux
In the 17th century, my great grandparents sailed to New France after leaving loved ones behind in their homeland in France. Although the two did not sail together, they eventually met, married, began raising a family, and settled in Sainte-Anne-de-la-Perade.
In the 17th century, my great grandparents sailed to New France after leaving loved ones behind in their homeland in France. Although the two did not sail together, they eventually met, married, began raising a family, and settled in Sainte-Anne-de-la-Perade.
In 1643, my 9x great grandfather, Antoine Marie Leduc, was born in Louvetot, Rouen, Normandy, France. He was the son of Jean Leduc and Jeanne Franscoise Desobrie.
As a teen in 1656, Antoine traveled from Dieppe to Quebec on the ship the Saint-Sebastion. That same year he signed an agreement to serve Pierre Denys Sieur de la Ronde for one year. In 1666, the census showed that seventeen-year-old Antoine worked as domestic help for Claude Herline in Trois-Rivieres
Sometime in 1649, Jeanne was born; she was the daughter of Noel Faucheux and Jacquette Trion. In 1671, at the age of twenty-two, Jeanne Faucheaux arrived in Quebec after sailing from Saint-Pierre-es-Liens in Huisseau-sur-Mauves in Orleans, Orleanais, France. She came to the New World as a King’s Daughter; this venture sent about 800 women to New France. The women married the soldiers and frontiersman. Although no records were found, it was believed that Jeanne and Antoine married that same year. The couple had three children, Marie Francoise (1675), Jean Baptiste (1678), and Pierre Charles (1680).
Antoine worked as a fur trapper and a farmer. On May 15, 1682, he and four men, Louis Dandonneau, Paul Desmarais, Jean Morneau, and Michel Desrosiers banded together for a fur trading expedition to the Outaouais.
They proclaimed if one died during the trip, the survivors would bring back his share of furs. At Teiagon, (Baby Point, Montreal), they were attacked by the Iroquois as they headed to Michillimakinac. From that point on Antoine was not heard from again. His widow, Jeanne, remarried Pierre Vaillant on February 29, 1888. In 1689, Pierre and Jeanne had one son, Pierre Rene Vaillant.
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Family Riches
You’re not rich until you have something that money can’t buy.
In June 1975, the children were home for summer vacation on the little island of Alameda, California. The salty breezes from the San Francisco Bay kept the air pleasant, even as the temperatures began to rise. Kids rode bikes and Big Wheels up and down the sidewalks, while others dashed through sprinklers, all enjoying a well-earned break from school.
The houses on our block were a mix of styles and sizes. Some were Victorian homes and quaint cottages; others were Craftsman-style bungalows, and one was a Spanish Revival. It was a family-friendly neighborhood, with plenty of kids for everyone to have someone to play with during those summer days.
As summer stretched on, families in the neighborhood chatted about their upcoming vacations. Some planned trips south to Disneyland, and the children eagerly discussed their plans with the other neighborhood kids.
Our family, however, was the largest crew on the block. With five kids, ranging from five to fourteen years old that summer, we were a busy household. But because of our size, we rarely took family vacations. Instead, our parents found creative ways to explore the world with us. We were all involved in scouting—our parents included—and we often had the chance to travel with friends and extended family. One of my brothers, who had Type 1 Diabetes, went to a two-week camp each year for kids with the same condition.
On top of that, we had memorable day trips up and down the Northern California coast. We spent weekends picnicking, visiting beaches, and exploring state parks. Sometimes we’d even go to the local amusement parks. While other families discussed their vacations to far-off places, we never felt left out. Our adventures, though smaller in scale, were full of wonder and fun.
That summer, however, Mom seemed worried. As the talks of trips to Disneyland grew, she couldn’t help but feel a little disappointed that we couldn’t afford such a trip. One afternoon, the youngest of my brothers—Keith and Danny—came inside to ask about the possibility of a family trip to Disneyland.
Keith, with his wide eyes, asked innocently, “How much would it cost for our family to go to Disneyland?”
Mom, glancing at their hopeful faces, sighed and replied, “Well, for our family, it would probably cost around $1,000.” To us, it might as well have been a million dollars.
“Okay!” Keith and Danny chimed together, then ran back outside.
Turning to me, Mom shook her head and said quietly, “I wish we could take you all to Disneyland. It would be so much fun, and it breaks my heart to always have to say no.”
I walked over to her and hugged her. “You worry too much, Mom. You’ve given us a great life already,” I reassured her.
But she didn’t seem convinced. She simply went back to preparing lunch, keeping her feelings to herself.
When lunch was ready, the little ones grabbed their plates and headed outside for an impromptu picnic in the backyard. Mom helped them spread out a blanket and poured some Kool-Aid. Tommy, my older brother, took his lunch to his room to work on a new electronic project, while Dave, another brother, flopped in front of the TV to catch reruns of Gilligan’s Island. I stayed in the kitchen with Mom so we could have lunch together.
Despite her best efforts to hide it, I could tell Mom was still feeling the weight of her disappointment. She wanted to do more for us, to give us experiences like the other kids had, but it just wasn’t possible.
After the boys finished eating, they asked Mom to help clean up their picnic. I followed her outside to lend a hand.
As we gathered up the leftover dishes, Keith had one more question. “How much would it cost to have a new baby?” he asked, his curiosity piqued.
Mom smiled, taken aback. “Oh, about the same as a trip to Disneyland,” she replied, half-laughing.
Keith turned to Danny, and they exchanged excited grins. “Well,” Keith announced, “since they cost the same, we’ve decided we’d rather have a new baby!”
The words hung in the air for a moment, and then we all burst into laughter. As I glanced at Mom, I saw tears welling up in her eyes. She didn’t need a trip to Disneyland. In that moment, she realized that the riches in her life were not measured by money or material things. Her wealth was found in the love and laughter of her children.
Mom’s worries faded, and her heart seemed lighter. She may not have fully understood how much she meant to us, but in that moment, we all knew she was the greatest gift of all. Mama taught us that true riches aren’t about what you can buy; they’re about the people you love and the moments you share together.
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