The Lesson I Didn’t Ask For

Daily writing prompt
What is one way you have grown this year?

Growth does not always arrive together with laughter and sunlight. Sometimes it slips in slowly, through the ache of certain hopes that never found their way home, those disappointments that create ripples in your heart, and change the view right outside your window.

Heartache has a way of taking off those rose-colored glasses we once wore without thinking. Suddenly, the world looks different; it’s sharper but also more honest. It stings that new clarity, but sometimes it’s the only way we learn to see ourselves and others as we truly are.

There comes a still moment when you realize the ground beneath you has shifted, and there is no path going back to the way things were. The innocence may have slipped away, but in its place comes a kinder wisdom, a gentle strength, and a clearer sense of what your heart can hold and what it finally must let go.

And while I may not see the world quite the same way these days, over the past two years, I have grown into someone a little wiser, a little stronger, and someone more willing to trust the truth when it finally knocks on my door. Heartache did not close me off from the life I’ve built; it opened my eyes, steadied my spirit, and taught me to offer myself the same kindness I would give to someone I love.

Becoming Her

Daily writing prompt
What’s your favorite meme?

I have always loved favorite memes because they can say so much with just a few words and a simple image. They often capture exactly how we feel in a way that makes us laugh, think, or feel understood. When I read this prompt, I decided to create one of my own, using words that reflect the woman I am becoming. I like this meme because it reminds me that I am growing stronger every day. I am learning to trust myself, protect my peace, and honor the woman I fought so hard to become.

Finding My Way Home: A New Chapter in Family Stories

Book Two: Tales of a Family: Finding My Way Home

Book Two of Tales of a Family continues the journey through memory, family history, and the stories that shape who we are. This collection gathers more treasured moments, old photographs, family voices, and reflections from the past, weaving them together with love, humor, heartache, and gratitude. From the people who came before us to the memories we carry forward, this book is a celebration of roots, resilience, and the quiet beauty of finding our way home through story.

My goal is to have it complete by the end of the summer…

September

Daily writing prompt
What’s a song that always puts you in a good mood?

Some songs just have a way of changing the mood of a room, and for me, that song is “September” by Earth, Wind and Fire. From the moment I hear the tempo, it feels joyful, light, and full of energy. No matter the day I am having, it puts a smile on my face. And in no time at all, my feet are tapping to the music while I sway in my seat.

It takes me back to high school, a time filled with friends, memories, and school dances. It offers joyful expectations and reminds us of life’s best days. And when it played during lunch, everyone jumped up and moved.

“September” just has that entertaining beat, and when it plays, no one can just sit still. It’s light-hearted and fun, and the perfect song for any celebration.

This song will never fade into the background, and this is one of those songs that just pulls this grammie onto the dance floor, time and time again. No matter how many years pass, “September” still knows how to make my heart dance.

Mom and Mo

Tucked behind a front yard teeming with plants and a sweet pea vine that covered the chain-link fence stood my mom’s little house. Her yard was filled with lively colors and the soft sounds of birds chirping. Between the scent of her flowers and the neighbor’s pine tree, stepping into her yard was warm and inviting.  

To reach her front porch, visitors crossed a cute little bridge that made the house almost feel like a storybook cottage. Her yard was full of life, with plants, birds, and an apple tree that offered shade, blossoms, and eventually a little trouble.

The trouble came in the form of one spoiled squirrel that I called Mo. He was determined to become a professional birdseed thief. Mama had a bird feeder in her front yard that sat high upon a pole, and Mo was determined that he would eventually pull off the perfect heist. He spent endless hours trying to reach his loot; he stretched, leaped, slipped, jumped, and plotted, but no matter how hard he tried, he never made it to the top of the bird feeder, even though he tried every trick a squirrel could possibly imagine.

Mo’s failed little acrobatics became a daily comedy show and a source of entertainment. Mama, resting in her easy chair, watched him from the living room window as Mo schemed and scrambled. His antics brought hours of smiles; he became a familiar rhythm to her day, a tiny comic performer in her front yard.

Mama always had a soft spot for critters that crossed her path, and after watching him struggle, she decided to help her little neighbor in his time of need. On her front porch, she had stair-step shelves that sat right under her large front window. Among her plants, she added a clay plant saucer, brimming with birdseed, tucking it between her potted flowers.

That was all the encouragement Mo required. What started as a simple act of kindness quickly became a daily routine.

Before long, that cheeky little guy acted as if the porch belonged to him.

Our newest and sassiest family member decided the saucer wasn’t just a gift; it was a special act of service meant just for him. When the bowl was empty, he would climb the steps, scrambling between the plants, moving right up to the front window. If he did not see his benefactor, the brazen little guy would actually knock on the window until he got her attention, like he was placing an order at his favorite diner. Once she peeked out her window, he would shake his tail, loudly chatter about his lack of provisions, and stare at her as if to say, “Excuse me, lady, you need to fill my bowl.”

And of course, she met his growing demands and fed him, but I’m sure Mo never doubted her.

Over time, Mama and Mo developed the sweetest little friendship. Sometimes she began leaving the front door open, and Mo would come close enough to eat right out of her hand. What started as a squirrel’s failed attempt to raid a birdfeeder turned into one of those small, memorable tales that make a house feel like a home.

Mo may not have conquered the birdfeeder, but he certainly conquered my Mama’s heart.  In his own tiny way, he reminded my Mama that friendship can show up in the most unexpected ways, sometimes with a quivering tail, tiny paws, and a very demanding appetite.

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Ten Years of Stories: A Fresh New Chapter

This year marks a special milestone for Tales of a Family: Finding My Way Home—ten years of gathering stories, honoring memories, and finding my way back through the people and places that shaped me. What began as a simple desire to preserve family history has grown into a beautiful journey of writing, remembering, healing, and connecting with others who believe our stories matter. To celebrate this anniversary, I have given the blog a fresh new look that feels more like home: softer, warmer, and filled with the same heart, heritage, and storytelling spirit that inspired it from the beginning. I hope this updated space invites you to linger, read, remember, and maybe even begin writing a few stories of your own.

The Man I Remembered

This week’s writing prompt invites us to pause and remember a man who left an imprint on our hearts. He may have been a father, grandfather, uncle, brother, neighbor, teacher, or family friend—someone whose words, actions, humor, kindness, or quiet strength still live in our memories. Sometimes the men we remember most are not remembered for grand gestures, but for the way they showed up, worked hard, loved their people, and taught us something about life without even knowing it.

Prompt: The Man I Remember
Write about a man who influenced your life. What do you remember most about him?

Please join in the writing and share your stories in the comments or link them here. Your memory may help honor someone whose story deserves to live on.

Memories & Storybooks: Prompts for June

I’m excited to revive a feature on Tales of a Family: Finding My Way Home: monthly writing prompts for anyone who wants to preserve their own family stories. Each month, I’ll share simple prompts to help you remember the people, places, lessons, and little moments that shaped your life. Some stories may begin with an old photograph, a favorite recipe, a family saying, or a memory that has been waiting quietly to be written. I hope you’ll write along with me, share your stories, and link them here so we can celebrate the beautiful heritage we are creating one memory at a time.

When Souls Recognize Each Other

Do you believe in soul mates? I used to think they only belonged in love stories, tucked between long walks on the beach and watching shooting stars in a favorite mountain getaway. But the older I get, the more I wonder if soul mates don’t just have to be about romance. Maybe they are the people who understand the quiet parts of us, the ones who arrive when we need them the most, the ones who feel familiar before we even know their story.

I once met someone I had an instant connection with from the first time we visited when I was eighteen. It felt as if we had known each other all our lives. We shared so much in common, finishing each other’s sentences and spending endless hours together. Never since that time have I ever felt that kind of love for a man. 

Still, we were so young, and he moved so quickly, I stepped back from our relationship; a decision I still regret to this day.

Was he my soul mate? I guess I will never truly know. Or did he enter my life at the wrong time?  I guess I will never really know that either. Will I ever have another male companion whom I will consider to be my soulmate? Probably not, but in my later years, I am honestly okay with that knowledge.

But that still brings me back to the question: do I have soul mates in my life?

Yes, I honestly believe I do. 

Some of my closest friends fill that role.  I have childhood friends who are like sisters to me, and we’ve been friends for over fifty years. They are definitely soulmates.  I have met others whose connections felt almost spine-tingling because we had so much in common. We even admitted that we were destined to become friends.  Yep, soul mates there too.

I also have several friends who feel like family, sisters, and daughters. They are people whom I can’t imagine not being in my life.

And then there was my grandmother, a definite kindred spirit and soul mate. What joy she brought into my life. She was a mentor, best friend, and the perfect grandma. 

And what about pets? I have had dogs and cats, even horses and cows, that made my life extra special. They bonded with me, loved me, and made life a joyous occasion.

So maybe, just maybe, soul mates are not always the people we marry. Maybe they are the people and even the critters who walk into our lives and leave a soft light on inside of us.

So do I believe in soul mates?

Yes, yes, I do. 

I believe in them because some connections feel too powerful to be accidental. I do not know whether we have only one romantic soulmate in our lifetime, but I do know there are people whose souls recognize ours.  They arrive like a familiar song, create a feeling of peace, and leave us changed forever. 

Maybe soulmates are not only found once in a lifetime; maybe they are a beautiful reminder that love has been finding us all along

So now I will ask you, do you believe in soul mates? Are they romantic partners, lifelong friends, family members, or even the four-legged companions who somehow know exactly when we need them? I would love to hear your thoughts. Maybe we all have a soul mate story tucked somewhere in our hearts.