The Elf on the Shelf

With her inquisitive stare, bright eyes, and tiny pouty smile, the little elf dressed in red has always been one of my favorite family heirlooms. She sits quietly on a small shelf each Christmas season, her felt outfit a little faded now, her painted cheeks softened by time and she now is missing one tiny eyebrow. To anyone else, she might look like an old doll. But to me, she holds a story.

This little elf once belonged to my mother.

Mama received her one Christmas when she was just five years old. She often told me that story, her voice warm with memory as if she could still see the moment as clearly as if it had happened yesterday.

Christmas in Mama’s childhood home was simple, but to her it was magical.

Each December, the family would bundle up in coats and scarves and head out together to find the perfect Christmas tree. They didn’t buy one from a lot; instead, they searched until they found just the right one to bring home. Once inside, the tree was proudly placed in the living room, where the family decorated it with the ornaments she had carefully saved from year to year.

Mama remembered the smell of fresh pine filling the house and the warmth of a coal stove that chased off any winter chill.

But Christmas of 1939 came during the hard years of the Great Depression.

Money was scarce, and every dollar mattered. My grandfather worked long hours on the ranch, often leaving before the sun rose and returning after it set. My grandmother cleaned houses for neighbors and families in town to earn a little extra money.

Even with all their hard work, there wasn’t much left over.

Still, Grandma was determined that Christmas would feel special for her children, my mother and my aunt.

Each year, they received one “big” gift and a stocking filled with small surprises: an orange tucked in the toe, a few pieces of hard candy, maybe a ribbon or hair bow. Those small treasures felt just as exciting as any expensive present.

That year, Grandma found a secondhand doll.

It wasn’t new, and it certainly wasn’t fancy. The little elf wore a red felt outfit and a pointed hat. Her face had been carefully embroidered with bright eyes and a mischievous smile.

To Mama, she was perfect.

She loved that little elf with the fierce devotion only a child can give a beloved toy. The doll became part of her Christmas memories, brought out each December and placed somewhere special where she could watch over the holiday celebrations.

Years later, when I was a child, Mama would carefully unwrap that same doll from a box of ornaments. She handled it gently, the way people do when they are holding a memory.

“This was my Christmas doll,” she would say, smiling softly.

Then she would place the little elf somewhere in the room where she could be seen.

I didn’t fully understand it then, but Mama wasn’t just setting out a decoration. She was honoring a piece of her childhood, a reminder of a time when life was hard, but love made everything feel abundant.

Now that the little elf lives in my home.

Now she rests on her own little shelf, keeping watch as the seasons come and go. She remains there all year long, a gentle reminder of the love, sacrifice, and simple joys that shaped our family’s Christmases.

Her red outfit is a little worn now, and the years have softened the brightness of her face.

But to me, she still carries the same magic.

She reminds me that Christmas was never measured by the size of a gift.

It was measured by the love that made even the smallest gift feel like magic.

The Road to Freedom ~ Abolitionists: Levi and Catharine Coffin

Throughout their lives, Levi and Catharine Coffin helped thousands of slaves find their way to freedom. This Quaker couple opened their homes and their hearts while defying government mandates and relying on the truths of a heavenly Father to guide them while helping those in need. Continue reading “The Road to Freedom ~ Abolitionists: Levi and Catharine Coffin”

A Country Western Singer, Mama, and Morning Sickness

“Please excuse Ann for being late this morning. She has morning sickness.”

I turned back toward the house, but my mom was already standing in the doorway, arms crossed, grinning like a woman who had just played her final card. She waved sweetly and called out, “Guess you’ll be on time tomorrow, huh?”

And I was. Mama always knew exactly how to end the nonsense

Turns out nothing cures bad hair habits faster than the threat of a fictional pregnancy documented in your mother’s handwriting.

Ranch Life and Whiskey

My grandfather, Tom Allen, was a rancher who raised sheep on the western slope of Colorado, near the town of Hotchkiss. Ranching played a vital role in my family for a long time; it was a way of life. Grandpa grew up on a ranch and began helping his father at a young age. As a child, he understood the cycle. Ranch kids have always known that raising livestock means food on the table, which is why this tale warms my heart.

One year, Grandpa went hunting with his brothers and some neighbors. This was another way to provide for the family, and it allowed the men to bond and enjoy some good old-fashioned fun.

On this particular hunting trip, the men brought alcohol to relax around the campfire after a long day of hunting. My grandfather also brought whiskey, which was not unusual, as he often had it around the house. However, Grandpa didn’t drink; he used whiskey for doctoring. When a person or an animal was injured or sick, he would use whiskey to help them.

As children, if we were ill and heard Grandpa was coming, we cried. We knew we were getting his version of a hot toddy, a concoction that burned out whatever ailed us. Bless his gruff heart, his rough mannerisms softened, and our grandfather became the sweetest of saints. In a gentle voice, he would calm our fears, place a cool cloth on our foreheads, and keep the covers pulled up tight. He would sit with us until we fell asleep and only leave our side if he believed we were on the mend. He treated animals with the same gentleness.

While on this hunting adventure, Grandpa shot a buck. When his fellow hunters returned to camp, they discovered that my grandfather had indeed shot a buck, but it rested quietly after its injury. Apparently, he had grazed the animal and brought it back to camp to clean its wounds with whiskey. The problem was that he didn’t have enough to properly tend to his patient, so he used others’ private stash too.

Mama recalled that people laughed at my grandpa for years after this incident because he brought his deer home. He bought a red collar with a bell, put it out to pasture, and kept it on his ranch where he knew it would be safe. That was also the last time the rancher ever went hunting.

Birthday Surprises…even in May

Why is an ice cube so smart?

Since my life as a school teacher has usually kept me hopping, I have tried to remember to slow down and enjoy all the precious moments that make each day special.   Today was one of those days that I want to remember because my students went out of their way to make my day something memorable. Continue reading “Birthday Surprises…even in May”

Spinning Yarns

Mama would often tell stories about family. One person she would often talk about was her great grandfather, William (Wilhelm) Strassburg. William was born in Prussia on January 9, 1861 to August Fredrick Strassburg and Mary Eva Mudth.

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According to the tales, William told his grand daughter, he came to this country when he was just a small boy. He told my mom that he snuck on board a ship and traveled alone. According to mama, he had a broken arm that did not heal correctly; he told her that he received this injury in World War I while fighting for his new country that he loved so very much. Continue reading “Spinning Yarns”

And to Think, it all Started with a Mouse!

11At one time or another, just about everyone in this country has been touched by a magical Disney moment. Walter Elias Disney started with a dream and turned it into a wondrous reality. Although he had some harsh setbacks, he never gave up on fulfilling these ideals, and today, his name is a household word, not only in this country but also around the world. Continue reading “And to Think, it all Started with a Mouse!”

Mary Buzzard Hupp: Colonial Wife and Mother

1To date, the oldest member I have discovered in my family tree would be my 4x great grandmother, Mary Buzzard. This grandmother lived for 96 years, and she died just 17 days before her 97th birthday. Continue reading “Mary Buzzard Hupp: Colonial Wife and Mother”

Sweet Sounds

Tie a yellow ribbon round the ole oak tree….

Music drifted out through the open front door of my grandparents’ cheerful little cottage. “Tie a Yellow Ribbon ’Round the Ole Oak Tree” floated across the yard, and I smiled the moment I heard it. It was one of Grandma’s favorite songs. Ever since Tony Orlando and Dawn began appearing on television each week, she rarely missed their show. I was certain she counted herself among their most devoted fans.

When I stayed with my grandparents, evenings often settled into a gentle rhythm of television, music, and togetherness. After supper, the house would grow quiet and cozy as Grandma took her place in her chair and Grandpa settled in nearby, ready for the familiar programs they loved. They faithfully watched Hee Haw, the Grand Ole Opry, and The Lawrence Welk Show. Grandma especially loved the music and dancing. Her face would brighten when a favorite song began, and she seemed to carry the tune right into her smile. Grandpa enjoyed the humor just as much as the music, chuckling at the corny jokes, one-liners, and silly skits that were part of those shows. Looking back, those evenings seemed wrapped in warmth—the soft lamplight, the hum of the television; the comfort of being together in that small cottage filled with love. How I wish I could step back into one of those nights, if only for an hour, and sit with them once more, listening to the music and feeling the safety of their presence.

Country music also filled the rooms of my own childhood home. Songs by Hank Williams, Charley Pride, Patsy Cline, Loretta Lynn, George Jones, and Glen Campbell, often played on the stereo in the living room. We grew up with those voices. Their songs drifted through our days as naturally as conversation—playing while chores were done, floating through open windows on warm afternoons, and setting the mood for family gatherings and long car rides. Country music was never just background noise in our house. It was part of the texture of daily life, woven into our routines and memories so completely that I cannot think of my childhood without hearing a song somewhere in the distance.

When I look back on family stories, music is almost always there, underscoring the moment like a soundtrack. It gave shape to ordinary days and marked special ones. A certain melody can still carry me back in an instant—to a kitchen, a living room, a summer evening, or a holiday gathering. Music has always held an important place in my family. It connected one generation to the next through shared favorites, familiar voices, and songs everyone seemed to know by heart.

Grandma and Mama often talked about the community dances in Hotchkiss, Colorado, and I loved listening to those stories. In my mind, I could almost see the scene unfold: neighbors arriving at a crowded hall with cake plates balanced in their hands and jars of lemonade to share, laughter spilling through the room before the music even began. Someone would start playing, another would join in, and before long, the whole place would come alive. Couples twirled across the floor, boots shuffled in time, skirts swayed, and the room pulsed with music and motion. Grandpa would sometimes call for square dances, his voice ringing out over the laughter and fiddle music, guiding the dancers as they do-si-do’d and swung their partners beneath the bright lights. From the stories I heard, many members of the Allen family played instruments, and most of them learned by ear. They didn’t need sheet music. The songs lived inside them, ready to be called out by memory and feeling.

Music, in those stories, was never merely entertainment. It was a gathering place, a language, a thread that stitched family and community together. It carried joy, eased loneliness, and gave people a way to celebrate both the ordinary and the meaningful moments of life. Even now, those songs and stories linger. They remind me that long before memories are written down, they are often first carried in melody—passed from one heart to another in a tune, everyone remembers.

Le What?

À vaillant coeur rien d’impossible. -Jacques Cœur

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One family name that I have often found spelled in different ways is the La Duke surname. To date, I have discovered Le Duc, La Duc, and, of course, La Duke. Even the capitalization was sometimes different too, for I have also uncovered Le duc, La duc, and La duke. And sometimes the names did not contain any spaces at all; the names were spelled Leduc, Laduc,  Laduke, and La Decue. Continue reading “Le What?”